Early this morning I blogged about two out of mind kids who did such an idiot "activity" at the surau. I don't know what's wrong with our Malaysian kids and teenagers. Who should be blamed on this issue? Government? Teachers? Parents? Our society? or that kids or teenagers themselves?
This is another scenario in our country and you can relate or associate it with my previous entry. The following quotes are also taken from Berita Harian Online. The headline of the new is "21 kes pelajar hamil sejak 2006".
Can you imagine? 20 cases involves the consent from both parties - the boys and the girls. It maybe accepted if the girl is pregnant because of she being raped. That's was out of her consent. But two kids willingly to commit sexual relationship until the girl got pregnant and it happens in 20 cases. That insane man!
Is it too harsh if I say the village kids have "uglier attitude" than the town kids? 12 cases occured in rural area and 9 in urban area. Can you see it? I don't what to say, but no matter people live, if there can't restrain themselves, they will still involve in immoral activity.
I'm not sure if the above efforts create the positive change. If yes, then it is good. But if not, then there are still a lot of thing to be considered and to be done in order to prevent and stop this problem from becoming worsen.
But the question is still remain the same. Who should be blamed? Easy question but difficult answer.
This is another scenario in our country and you can relate or associate it with my previous entry. The following quotes are also taken from Berita Harian Online. The headline of the new is "21 kes pelajar hamil sejak 2006".
KUALA LUMPUR: Sebanyak 21 kes pelajar dikesan mengandung dan bersalin anak luar nikah sejak 2006 hingga sekarang, kata Timbalan Menteri Pelajaran, Dr Mohd Puad Zarkashi.
Beliau berkata, siasatan kementerian menunjukkan bahawa 20 kes yang berlaku adalah berdasarkan suka sama suka antara pasangan manakala satu kes membabitkan kes rogol.
Can you imagine? 20 cases involves the consent from both parties - the boys and the girls. It maybe accepted if the girl is pregnant because of she being raped. That's was out of her consent. But two kids willingly to commit sexual relationship until the girl got pregnant and it happens in 20 cases. That insane man!
Ketika menjawab soalan Senator Datuk Azian Osman, beliau berkata 12 kes berlaku di sekolah luar bandar manakala sembilan di bandar.
Is it too harsh if I say the village kids have "uglier attitude" than the town kids? 12 cases occured in rural area and 9 in urban area. Can you see it? I don't what to say, but no matter people live, if there can't restrain themselves, they will still involve in immoral activity.
Sebagai usaha untuk menyelesaikan masalah sosial membabitkan pelajar sekolah, kementerian menerusi perkhidmatan Bimbingan dan Kaunseling menganjurkan program penerangan mengenai seksualiti, perhubungan antara lelaki dan perempuan serta adab dan tatacara bagaimana untuk bergaul dengan kawan-kawan, katanya.
I'm not sure if the above efforts create the positive change. If yes, then it is good. But if not, then there are still a lot of thing to be considered and to be done in order to prevent and stop this problem from becoming worsen.
But the question is still remain the same. Who should be blamed? Easy question but difficult answer.
Out of Wedlock Children From Teens - Who Should Be Blamed?
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on this day,more teenagers ready to be a 'young parent'
ReplyDeletebut they doesnt' think of the big responsibility they have to face in the future
*dgr cerita kat melaka ada usul nak buat sekolah utk plajar mengandung
hm..ajaran untuk tatacara bagaimana untuk bergaul laki pompuan tidak semestinya selesai masalah..
ReplyDeleteberbalik kepada ilmu dan ajaran Islam..sejauh mana mereka faham ilmu dan ajaran Islam..
sebab tak faham dan tak nak memahami ilmu dan ajaran Islam, mereka ni tewas pada kehendak nafsu..
a bit worried eh bukan a bit lagi tapi "big" worried dgn our younger sisters la ni, saya menujukan kepada 'youngers' kerana byk yg berlaku kejadian begini adalah dikalangan remaja dan lebih menyedihkan apabila mereka masih dibawah umur, jauh lagi perjalanan yg perlu kamu tempuh dik! kepada lelaki diluar sana tolong jgn jadi perosak wanita tetapi jadilah pelindung wanita. kepada gurlz diluar sana, jagalah maruah diri anda, tiada yg lebih penting selain harga diri dan maruah yang terpelihara utk seorang perempuan. sekian
ReplyDeletewho should be blamed?
ReplyDeleteahh really its not easy to point our fingers to who should be blame exactly.
bila benda dh jadi bukan spe yg perlu dprsalahkan yg patut dicari tp jalan penyelesaian dan pencegahan.
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ReplyDeleteit is not nice to be "young parents"
maybe they just lost their minds.
ermmm.. patut ke buat sekolah yang camtu.
macam menggalakkan lagi je budak mengandung.
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ReplyDeletesetuju sgt bro.
remaja kita sekarang tak sabar.
semuanya dieorang nak rasa cepat2.
sebab apa tak sabar?
macam yg bro ckp, sebab tak faham dan taknak memahami ilmu dan ajaran Islam.
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ReplyDeleteboys and girls, kedua-duanya kena berubah.
sebab benda ni berlaku biasanya atas kerelaan kedua belah pihak.
kalau salah seorang cuba mengelak diri, mungkin takkan jadi macam ni.
harap-harapnya lebih banyak usaha diadakan untuk menangani masalah yang semakin meruncing ini.
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ReplyDeleteit is not easy. yes, we don't even know how should be blamed right?
tapi mungkin wajar juga kita salahkan remaja2 kita yg tak boleh mengawal diri.tp yang macam fyra ckp, dalam keadaan sekarang, lebih elok cari jalan penyelesaian dan pencegahan. mungkin itu yang lebih baek. :)