Do You Really Understand?

People always say this "Yes, I understand how you feel" but the thing is do you really can feel how other people feel about one thing or tragedy? Don't bluff, one man can't understand how other man feels about one thing unless he used to experience the same thing. So "Yes, I understand how you feel" is only a good lie to make that sad person to feel more comfortable.

so, I recommend you, if you can't understand what other person feels, just said it "I can't understand how you feel because I'm not in your shoe,what I just can say is be patient, after bad things, good things will come". I used to listen to a lot of my friend's problems and secrets, and believe I don't understand how they feel, so I just give away an advice, and whether he wants to listen to it and apply it, it depends on him. People choose what they want and they make their own decision.

Never blame other persons if you involve in some bad situations because you the one to choose to fall into those situation. If you are guilty for murder, don't blame the person who provoke you because you the one who fails to control yourself and you made decision to kill him. The thing is simple as dad, you will get paid for what you did because you choose to do it, other persons just persuade you, asking you and provoke you, you the one who choose to do or not.

One thing that I really want to do in my life is to help all people who close to me and all people I know, but we just can't help everyone.

Have a nice weekend fellas!